The Calm &Present Method
6-Week Private Coaching
for Men Ready to Break the Cycle
This is for you if
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You're tired of numbing out with substances, screens, or shutting down when stress hits
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You want to be fully present with your kids and partner, not checked out or reactive
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You carry trauma you've never fully processed, and it's showing up in how you parent, work, or relate to others
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You're a creative or busy professional who needs practical tools that actually work in real life
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You're done repeating patterns from your own childhood
What we'll do together
Over 6 weeks, you'll learn to regulate your nervous system using two of the most powerful tools available: your breath and music. No prior musical experience needed - I'll teach you simple guitar techniques designed specifically for nervous system regulation.
Here's how it works
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6 weekly 1:1 sessions (60 minutes via Zoom or phone) where we work on your specific patterns and triggers.
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Customized weekly practices between sessions - simple breathwork and guitar exercises (10-15 min/day)
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Direct access to me via text/email for support when you need it between sessions
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All session recordings so you can revisit what we covered
What you'll gain
By the end of 6 weeks, you'll have:
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A reliable method to calm yourself down in minutes, without substances or avoidance
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Better sleep and natural breathing patterns throughout your day
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The ability to stay present and emotionally available with the people who matter most
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Tools you can use for the rest of your life - no ongoing dependence on therapy or apps
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A new relationship with music as a healing practice
Investment
$1,800 (payment plans available)
This includes everything: all sessions, recordings, direct access to me, and the practices you'll use long after our 6 weeks together.
*Limited to 5 clients at a time so I can give you the attention this work deserves.
APPLICATION BELOW or email me if you want to go directly to a discovery call to determine if this will work for us both. Email: jake@jakepaulmusic.com
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Bachelor Degree - FACS - UWStout
Master Degree - Differentiated Instruction
for At Risk Learners - Marian University
Masters Program - Educational Leadership -
Principal/Administration from
Carroll University
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